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	<title>Graham Scobey &#187; Personal</title>
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	<description>Atlanta and New England Wedding and Portrait Photographer</description>
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		<title>Quick Update</title>
		<link>http://graham.carlateneyck.com/2009/06/quick-update/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 18:13:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Things have been a little quiet here lately, and here&#8217;s why:

Last week my wife and I welcomed our beautiful daughter, Evelyn, into the world.
Be sure to check out my other blog and Ashley&#8217;s blog for more pictures and stories.  We are home and everyone is doing well, so look for more posts soon!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Things have been a little quiet here lately, and here&#8217;s why:</p>
<p><a href="http://graham.carlateneyck.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/Evie-hospital-home_0048.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-163" title="Evie hospital home_0048" src="http://graham.carlateneyck.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/Evie-hospital-home_0048-1024x681.jpg" alt="Evie hospital home_0048" width="900" height="598" /></a></p>
<p>Last week my wife and I welcomed our beautiful daughter, Evelyn, into the world.</p>
<p>Be sure to check out <a href="http://ahumbleperspective.blogspot.com" target="_blank">my other blog</a> and <a href="http://threescobeys.blogspot.com" target="_blank">Ashley&#8217;s blog</a> for more pictures and stories.  We are home and everyone is doing well, so look for more posts soon!</p>
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		<title>Recent Happenings</title>
		<link>http://graham.carlateneyck.com/2009/04/recent-happenings/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 23:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Graham</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Maternity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[News]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Photography]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[As many of you know, I have been blessed to be able to work with an amazingly talented photographer named Carla Ten Eyck.  I recently started a monthly column on her blog that will chronicle my experience of becoming a father.  The initial post ran a few days ago.  If you missed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As many of you know, I have been blessed to be able to work with an amazingly talented photographer named Carla Ten Eyck.  I recently started a monthly column on her blog that will chronicle my experience of becoming a father.  The initial post ran a few days ago.  If you missed it, <a href="http://www.carlateneyck.com/portraits/guest-blogger-graham-scobey.html">here&#8217;s a link</a>.</p>
<p>Also, a couple weekends ago Ashley and I met with Carla for a maternity shoot.  We were blown away by the images that Carla got.  Here is a sampling:</p>
<p><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MtjD5n2HG6M/Sdpeu4r-mTI/AAAAAAAAAEs/an2MkY_IPVA/s1600-h/scobey0022.jpg"><img style="display:block;text-align:center;cursor:pointer;width:266px;height:400px;margin:0 auto 10px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MtjD5n2HG6M/Sdpeu4r-mTI/AAAAAAAAAEs/an2MkY_IPVA/s400/scobey0022.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a></p>
<p>Be sure to check out <a href="http://www.carlateneyck.com/ridiculousness/maternity-shoot-hartford.html">Carla&#8217;s blog</a> for more images.</p>
<p>I shot a beautiful wedding over the weekend with Sarah McCoy, so be looking for  a post on that soon!  In the meantime, check out <a href="http://sarahmccoyphoto.com/blog/">her blog</a> for some killer images.</p>
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		<title>Farewell Dear Friend</title>
		<link>http://graham.carlateneyck.com/2009/02/farewell-dear-friend/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 03:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Graham</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Gear]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Canon 40d]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[creative responsibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Photography]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This may sound strange, but last week my wife and I spent a moment saying goodbye to and reminiscing about my Canon 40d.  After a long and hard debate with myself, I had made the decision to make the switch to Nikon.  Everyone that I am working with shoots Nikon, and I had [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This may sound strange, but last week <a href="http://threescobeys.blogspot.com/">my wife</a> and I spent a moment saying goodbye to and reminiscing about my Canon 40d.  After a long and hard debate with myself, I had made the decision to make the switch to Nikon.  Everyone that I am working with shoots Nikon, and I had a friend and fellow photographer who wanted to buy a 40d, so I knew it was time to let it go.</p>
<div style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MtjD5n2HG6M/SaHwVlvmuvI/AAAAAAAAAD0/DjcArI0L9HA/s1600-h/40d.jpg"><img style="border:0 none;padding:0;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MtjD5n2HG6M/SaHwVlvmuvI/AAAAAAAAAD0/DjcArI0L9HA/s400/40d.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a></div>
<p>You may be saying to yourself, &#8220;It is just a <span style="font-style:italic;">cam</span><span style="font-style:italic;">era</span>, what&#8217;s the big deal?!&#8221;  Let me explain.</p>
<p>When I bought my 40d I was going through a rough patch in my life.  I wasn&#8217;t satisfied with myself creatively or artistically, and I felt like I was repeatedly running full speed into a brick wall.  I was so unwilling to confront the resistance in my life that I was paralyzed, and I was slowly starting to convince myself that I could do nothing about it.</p>
<p>So I scrapped together some cash and gift cards that I had been given for my birthday and went somewhere that could brighten even my darkest day&#8230; Best Buy.  I went in determined to buy a Nikon d80, but the sales associate convinced me to go with the Canon 40d instead.  I went straight home and read the manual cover to cover while the battery was getting it&#8217;s first full charge.  I had work the next morning, and all I could think about all day was getting home to go out and shoot.  When I finally did get home, I went out and shot anything and everything I came across until the sun went down.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t really explain what happened next.  I guess you could say something just clicked.  I had always loved the art of photography, but I was reinvigorated with my passion to shoot.  The resistance was still there, but I could no longer make any excuse about confronting it.  If I was unsatisfied with myself as an artist, I had no choice but to go out and shoot and learn.</p>
<p>As silly as it sounds, that camera gave me the ability to weather the storm and come out stronger for it.  It gave me a clear direction and a sense of confidence in pursuing my calling.</p>
<p>Alright, alright, so maybe I&#8217;m just over-sentimental and cheezy, but it really was hard to say goodbye.</p>
<p>So Farewell, my dear friend.  You have been wonderful to me, and I know you will be in <a href="http://pkgstudio.wordpress.com/">good hands</a> now!</p>
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		<title>Sanctuary</title>
		<link>http://graham.carlateneyck.com/2008/12/sanctuary/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 23:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Graham</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Photography]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[refuge]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sanctuary]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[It is important to have a place of refuge in our lives.  Somewhere we can go and close the door behind us to escape the pressures of the day.  A place where we can exist as ourselves without judgment or resistance.
It might be a physical location, but it may be something less obvious [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is important to have a place of refuge in our lives.  Somewhere we can go and close the door behind us to escape the pressures of the day.  A place where we can exist as ourselves without judgment or resistance.</p>
<p>It might be a physical location, but it may be something less obvious as well.  Our sanctuary might actually be a piece of art, a favorite album, or a book.  One might go for a drive or a run to find sanctuary.  You might find sanctuary in your family or loved ones.</p>
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<div style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/ahumbleperspective/3095965210/" title="Sanctuary by A Humble Perspective, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3146/3095965210_070f5b750f.jpg" alt="Sanctuary" height="500" width="370" /></a></div>
<p>Where do you find sanctuary?</p>
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		<title>When One Door Closes&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://graham.carlateneyck.com/2008/09/when-one-door-closes/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 02:47:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Graham</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[decisions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fate]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes we have a tendency to take a passive approach to our lives.  We speak of &#8220;open doors&#8221; and &#8220;closed doors&#8221; as if the winds of fate were dictating our direction.  We sit back and take the path of least resistance, and then we justify it by saying it was the way things [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we have a tendency to take a passive approach to our lives.  We speak of &#8220;open doors&#8221; and &#8220;closed doors&#8221; as if the winds of fate were dictating our direction.  We sit back and take the path of least resistance, and then we justify it by saying it was the way things were meant to be.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/ahumbleperspective/2825596381/" title="Gateway by A Humble Perspective, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3121/2825596381_b3546d195e.jpg" alt="Gateway" height="333" width="500" /></a></p>
<p>It is one thing to recognize a closed door.  It is another to walk away without even trying the handle.</p>
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		<title>Hello Again</title>
		<link>http://graham.carlateneyck.com/2008/08/hello-again/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 08:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So here I am, months after my last post, and I am reminded of my first: there will always be an excuse.  I am still here, I still create, and I would still like to share that with anyone who is interested.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So here I am, months after my last post, and I am reminded of my first: there will always be an excuse.  I am still here, I still create, and I would still like to share that with anyone who is interested.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/ahumbleperspective/2798182633/" title="New England Sunset by A Humble Perspective, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3221/2798182633_413cdc2657.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="New England Sunset" /></a></p>
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		<title>Declaring Our Independence</title>
		<link>http://graham.carlateneyck.com/2008/07/declaring-our-independence/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 08:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Graham</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dependence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fourth of july]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[freedom]]></category>

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In America, we celebrate the day that we declared independence.  It symbolizes the birth of our nation, when we stood up to injustice and declared that we would fight to protect our inalienable rights as  human beings.  Yet since July Fourth, 1776 many Americans have fallen under the dictatorship of another kind. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/ahumbleperspective/2656976005/" title="Sky Fire by A Humble Perspective, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3131/2656976005_e08787154a.jpg" alt="Sky Fire" height="333" width="500" /></a></p>
<p>In America, we celebrate the day that we declared independence.  It symbolizes the birth of our nation, when we stood up to injustice and declared that we would fight to protect our inalienable rights as  human beings.  Yet since July Fourth, 1776 many Americans have fallen under the dictatorship of another kind.  We are governed by things like our drive for success, our desire for elevated social status, our habits and addictions, and our need to be entertained.  If we enslave ourselves to these things then can we really say that we are free?</p>
<p>What are the dictators in our lives that we should be declaring our independence from?</p>
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		<title>The Gift of Light</title>
		<link>http://graham.carlateneyck.com/2008/06/the-gift-of-light/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 01:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Graham</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Discernment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Photography]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wisdom]]></category>

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In life we are faced with two varieties of lights: those which guide us and those which serve as warnings.  Wisdom is simply the ability to discern between the two.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/ahumbleperspective/2611776008/" title="Breaker Lighthouse by A Humble Perspective, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3137/2611776008_3d53fd8bd3.jpg" alt="Breaker Lighthouse" height="500" width="329" /></a></div>
<p>In life we are faced with two varieties of lights: those which guide us and those which serve as warnings.  Wisdom is simply the ability to discern between the two.</p>
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		<title>Appreciation</title>
		<link>http://graham.carlateneyck.com/2008/06/appreciation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 18:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Graham</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[appreciation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Photography]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wishing]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[When I had reached the peak of my growth spurt as a kid, I pleaded with God for a few more inches.  Even as a grown man, frustration finds me in the form of a stiff neck from craning my head skyward to view the world around me.

It is easy to get into the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I had reached the peak of my growth spurt as a kid, I pleaded with God for a few more inches.  Even as a grown man, frustration finds me in the form of a stiff neck from craning my head skyward to view the world around me.</p>
<div style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/ahumbleperspective/2523099915/" title="California Redwood by A Humble Perspective, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2374/2523099915_01d8519d36.jpg" alt="California Redwood" height="500" width="333" /></a></div>
<p>It is easy to get into the habit of wanting what we do not have, be it money, a perfect body, or a taller stature.  This habit is at the root of many life-altering problems, including materialism, eating disorders, and infidelity.</p>
<p>If I constantly tell myself, &#8220;I wish I was taller,&#8221; &#8220;I wish I had more money,&#8221; &#8220;I wish I had the newest &#8230;&#8221; then I will fail to appreciate the things I have, and (more importantly) the person I am.  I will fail to take ownership of myself: one of the amazing individuals on this earth.  I will be hindered from becoming my fully realized self.  If this happens, I am doing a great disservice to myself and to the world.</p>
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		<title>Month in Review: May</title>
		<link>http://graham.carlateneyck.com/2008/06/month-in-review-may/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Graham</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[At the end of every month I will take a day to highlight the photographs that have been featured on my blog during that month.  I will also be throwing in additional photographs that I took but that didn&#8217;t make it into a post.  This one is a little late, but the next [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At the end of every month I will take a day to highlight the photographs that have been featured on my blog during that month.  I will also be throwing in additional photographs that I took but that didn&#8217;t make it into a post.  This one is a little late, but the next one will be at the end of June.  Enjoy!</p>
<p>To view this slideshow at a higher resolution, click <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/ahumbleperspective/sets/72157605297502195/show/">here</a>.</p>
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